- The Thrill of the Chase We Know It's a Complete Waste of Time and.
- The 6 Stages Of Romantic 'Chase Theory' Thought Catalog
- Thrill of the hunt may cost you the prize -
- The Thrill of the Chase We Know It's a Complete Waste
The Thrill of the Chase We Know It's a Complete Waste of Time and.
“Did I ever really love him or was I addicted to the pain–the exquisite pain–of wanting someone so unattainable? Why do we invest so much time, energy and emotion into going after someone we ultimately can’t have? But alas, the chase is alive and real, and I will admit I’ve chased some guys in my day. Not necessarily to with him, because in all reality these guys are usually not boyfriend material to begin with, but I live for that HA, I KNEW I COULD DO IT moment.
The 6 Stages Of Romantic 'Chase Theory' Thought Catalog
Well, one of two reasons: Either you really, genuinely love this person and won’t stop pursuing them until they realize how much you care about them, or (and this is usually the case) it’s just the thrill of the chase. I don’t suffocate him with attention (in my head I do, but they don’t know that so its OK), but I’m excited when I hear from them and I take initiative from time to time. (I told you it was stupid.) There’s a really awesome article from about whyguys love the chase, and while reading through it, I noticed that a lot of it is the same for girls: The “fantasy ideal” of building the person up to be this amazing specimen in your head from what you’ve gathered through your research, the “competitive nature” of going after something you don’t think you can have, being able to stay single while chasing so you don’t feel bad for investing energy into someone, yet get nookie from someone else…it’s all really absurd when you think about it, but we do it time and time again.
Thrill of the hunt may cost you the prize -
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again…People want what they can’t have and they almost always enjoy a challenge. I can’t say I’ll never chase a guy again and I can’t say that the thrill of the chase is something you grow out of.
The Thrill of the Chase We Know It's a Complete Waste
That’s why girls are always taught to play hard to get and guys have their stupid unwritten rules about dating–like waiting three days before ing the girl whose number they just got. My girlfriends always scold me for never playing hard to get. Let’s face it–it’s exciting, but don’t let it overcome you, because ultimately, you should ”never chase love, affection or attention.
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